Some days

As an adopted person and growing up in a loving home. Alot still wonder things like:

Why was I given up? Was there something wrong with me? Was it me? Were they trying to help me?

Sometimes its like I dont fit in! (simply it applies to both sides Adopted and Biological)

Its sometimes seems like the familes dont fully accept you because you are not of blood or because you were not rasied with them. 

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